Paris, the city of light, with its rich history and culture, has its own set of behavioral rules that differ from other cities. While you can enjoy the beautiful landmarks and delicious food, there are a few important “unwritten rules” that you should follow to feel at home in the French capital. Whether you’re enjoying a meal, strolling the streets, or using public transportation, it’s important to understand the Parisian code of conduct.

Start every encounter with “bonjour”

In Paris, politeness is not just desirable, it’s mandatory. Entering a café, restaurant, or even an elevator without greeting others can be seen as a serious mistake. The French place great importance on starting every interaction with “bonjour” (good day) and ending it with “au revoir” (goodbye). This is not just a custom, but part of the social etiquette. Whether you’re entering a store or asking for directions, always make an effort to start a conversation with a friendly greeting.

Treat waiters with respect

In the French hospitality industry, staff are not just “service workers”. They are part of one of the most respected French traditions. In many other countries, waiters are often temporary employees. In France they are trained in specialized schools and considered professionals. Therefore, the relationship between guests and waiters is based more on respect than a transactional exchange. There’s no need for excessive tips, as waiters are usually permanently employed. But always address them with respect, just as you would in any other professional environment.

Carry cash

In Paris, despite the digital age, it’s still uncommon to pay with cards in smaller shops, restaurants, and cafés. Many local stores set a minimum amount for card payments, so it’s wise to always carry a small amount of cash. Additionally, cash is useful for leaving tips, which is still an important practice in the Parisian hospitality industry.

Start exploring the city by bicycle

Paris is increasingly focused on sustainability and green transportation alternatives, and cycling has become one of the most popular ways to get around the city. Recently, the city has introduced numerous bike lanes, and the Vélib bike rental system allows visitors to rent bikes at affordable prices. If you’re already skilled in cycling, Paris is a great place to explore. It’s relatively small, and cycling provides a beautiful view of the city.

Don’t forget the buses

While the metro is fast and efficient, Parisian buses offer a unique opportunity to enjoy stunning panoramas, passing by landmarks such as the Louvre and the Eiffel tower. If you have more time, be sure to try the bus lines, as many offer incredible views of the city. Additionally, all buses in Paris are now accessible to people with reduced mobility, making travel even easier and more inclusive.

Respect the rhythm of french meals

The French are known for their love of food, and their lifestyle is closely tied to mealtimes. The morning typically starts with a light breakfast, while lunch is the main meal of the day and lasts about an hour. Dinner is usually later, around 8 p.m. In Paris, eating on the go is uncommon. Food is consumed with peace and relaxation. If you want to enjoy every bite, take the time for a long lunch on one of Paris’ terraces, accompanied by a mandatory discussion about what to eat for the next meal.

Apéro – a parisian tradition

In Paris, the apéritif (shortened to apéro) is a tradition you must not miss. It’s the obligatory pre-dinner drink, often accompanied by snacks and a glass of wine. Many Parisians relax with an apéro in bars or at home before transitioning to dinner. If you opt for an apéro at home, every store offers a section with all the necessary snacks, wines, and delights that perfectly pair with this tradition.

Trust the advice of wine merchants

One of the most delightful aspects of visiting Paris is the opportunity to enjoy top-quality wines. The French are exceptional wine experts, so if you’re unsure which wine to choose, ask your wine merchant for advice. They are eager to explain all about the types of grapes and wine quality, always with the goal of helping you find the one that best suits your taste, regardless of price.

Lines – the art of waiting in Paris

In Paris, lines are not always clearly defined. At metro stations and on buses, you often notice that passengers simply board without waiting for others to exit. The situation in stores is similar, so it’s important to develop sensitivity to Parisian queuing etiquette. Pay attention to how locals behave and learn how to navigate situations that are not always clearly defined.

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